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PANDANGAN DAN SOLUSI BERKENAAN KISAH SILAM YANG TIDAK ELOK

What is the solution for a man who has repented of a bad past with his ex-girlfriend, who refuses to forgive him and prays for misfortune upon him?

Short answer

The man is advised to keep repenting to Allah and seeking forgiveness.

Federal TerritoriesOpinion (irsyad)

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Authority
Federal Territories Mufti Office
Date
Status
Opinion (irsyad)
Series
Al-Kafi li al-Fatawi
Topic
Ethics, Remembrance & Supplication

No evidence of gazettement in the source — this is not a gazetted fatwa.

Summary

The man is advised to keep repenting to Allah and seeking forgiveness. He is encouraged to build a new life filled with righteous deeds and service to religion. The deeds mentioned include giving charity, remembrance of Allah, supplication and seeking forgiveness, which are hoped to bring goodness to his life. The answer notes that many who stumbled early in life ended as truly righteous people.

Written in our own words from the original fatwa — check the source before acting on it.

Bertaubat kepada Allah sentiasa dan beristighfar. Bina hidup baru yang disulami dengan amalan soleh dan berbakti kepada agama.

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Federal Territories Mufti Office. “PANDANGAN DAN SOLUSI BERKENAAN KISAH SILAM YANG TIDAK ELOK”, 10 June 2015. https://muftiwp.gov.my/ms/artikel/al-kafi-li-al-fatawi/1647-pandangan-dan-solusi-berkenaan-kisah-silam-yang-tidak-elok. Found via Rujuk Fatwa: https://rujukfatwa.com/en/fatwa/solution-for-a-bad-past-after-repentance/