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AL-KAFI #849 : ANTARA ADAB BERASMARA SUAMI ISTERI (EDISI KEMASKINI)

What is the ruling on oral sex, where a husband or wife licks the partner's private parts?

Short answer

The fatwa states that Shafi'i scholars permit a husband to enjoy every part of his wife's body sexually, except intercourse through the anus, which is forbidden.

Federal TerritoriesOpinion (irsyad)

A reference, not a fatwa. First sentence of the summary below — read the original fatwa and consult your state authority before acting.

Authority
Federal Territories Mufti Office
Date
Status
Opinion (irsyad)
Series
Al-Kafi li al-Fatawi
Topic
Marriage & Family

No evidence of gazettement in the source — this is not a gazetted fatwa.

Summary

The fatwa states that Shafi'i scholars permit a husband to enjoy every part of his wife's body sexually, except intercourse through the anus, which is forbidden. It cites Fath al-Mu`in, which allows this even by sucking the clitoris, provided it is done in a proper manner and causes no harm. Looking at the private part is disliked in the Shafi'i school without need, while the Hanafi, Maliki and Hanbali schools permit it absolutely. Only the Hanafi and Hanbali schools consider refraining from looking more fitting in terms of etiquette.

Written in our own words from the original fatwa — check the source before acting on it.

Diharuskan bagi seorang suami itu menikmati secara seksual akan tubuh isterinya, selain daripada lubang dubur (liwat), sekalipun dengan menghisap biji kelentitnya.

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Federal Territories Mufti Office. “AL-KAFI #849 : ANTARA ADAB BERASMARA SUAMI ISTERI (EDISI KEMASKINI)”, 15 October 2018. https://muftiwp.gov.my/ms/artikel/al-kafi-li-al-fatawi/2673-al-kafi-849-antara-adab-berasmara-suami-isteri. Found via Rujuk Fatwa: https://rujukfatwa.com/en/fatwa/ruling-on-oral-sex-between-spouses/

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Evidence cited

Quran verses

  • Al-Baqarah 2:223
  • An-Nisa' 4:19

Hadith

  • Ahmad 9733
  • Bukhari 2967
  • Nasaie 8942

Books

  • Fath al-Mu'in
  • Kifayah al-Akhyar
  • Mughni al-Muhtaj (al-Khatib al-Syirbini)
  • Tafsir al-Qurtubi (al-Jami' li Ahkam al-Quran)