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IRSYAD HUKUM SIRI KE- 296 : HUKUM TIDAK HADIR KENDURI KAHWIN YANG DIJEMPUT MELALUI FACEBOOK

What is the ruling on not attending a wedding feast to which one was invited through Facebook?

Short answer

The majority of scholars hold that responding to a wedding invitation is obligatory, and the most authoritative view in the Shafi'i school is that it is an individual obligation for the invitee.

Federal TerritoriesOpinion (irsyad)

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Authority
Federal Territories Mufti Office
Date
Status
Opinion (irsyad)
Series
Irsyad al-Hukum (Umum)
Topic
Marriage & Family

No evidence of gazettement in the source — this is not a gazetted fatwa.

Summary

The majority of scholars hold that responding to a wedding invitation is obligatory, and the most authoritative view in the Shafi'i school is that it is an individual obligation for the invitee. The obligation lapses with valid excuses such as doubtful food, the presence of wrongdoing at the event, a feast that invites only the rich, an invitation from a non-Muslim, and other excuses like heavy rain, traffic congestion, illness, long distance or being very busy. Invitations to events other than weddings are considered recommended.

Written in our own words from the original fatwa — check the source before acting on it.

Majoriti para ulama menyatakan bahawa hukum memenuhi jemputan perkahwinan adalah wajib.

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Federal Territories Mufti Office. “IRSYAD HUKUM SIRI KE- 296 : HUKUM TIDAK HADIR KENDURI KAHWIN YANG DIJEMPUT MELALUI FACEBOOK”, 7 March 2019. https://muftiwp.gov.my/ms/artikel/irsyad-hukum/umum/3181-irsyad-al-fatwa-siri-ke-296-hukum-tidak-hadir-kenduri-kahwin-yang-dijemput-melalui-facebook. Found via Rujuk Fatwa: https://rujukfatwa.com/en/fatwa/ruling-not-attending-wedding-feast-facebook-invitation/

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Evidence cited

Hadith

  • Ibn Majah 1913
  • Muslim 1053
  • Muslim 1432
  • Muslim 2162

Books

  • al-Fiqh al-Islami wa Adillatuh (Wahbah al-Zuhaili)
  • Syarh al-Nawawi 'ala Sahih Muslim

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