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AL-KAFI #1990: BENARKAH TERDAPAT LARANGAN MEMELUK SAHABATNYA APABILA BERTEMU

Is it disliked to hug a friend of the same gender when meeting?

Short answer

This fatwa rules that hugging a same-gender friend is disliked (makruh), following the Shafi'i school.

Federal TerritoriesOpinion (irsyad)

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Authority
Federal Territories Mufti Office
Date
Status
Opinion (irsyad)
Series
Al-Kafi li al-Fatawi
Topic
Ethics, Remembrance & Supplication

No evidence of gazettement in the source — this is not a gazetted fatwa.

Summary

This fatwa rules that hugging a same-gender friend is disliked (makruh), following the Shafi'i school. The exception is when someone is about to travel, has returned from a journey, or has not met the friend for a long time. The ruling of dislike also does not apply to those who are mahram relatives, especially when done out of affection.

Written in our own words from the original fatwa — check the source before acting on it.

Makruh bagi seorang lelaki memeluk sahabat lelakinya melainkan apabila ingin bermusafir, pulang dari musafir atau lama tidak bertemu.

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Federal Territories Mufti Office. “AL-KAFI #1990: BENARKAH TERDAPAT LARANGAN MEMELUK SAHABATNYA APABILA BERTEMU”, 12 July 2024. https://muftiwp.gov.my/ms/artikel/al-kafi-li-al-fatawi/5951-al-kafi-1990-benarkah-terdapat-larangan-memeluk-sahabatnya-apabila-bertemu. Found via Rujuk Fatwa: https://rujukfatwa.com/en/fatwa/ruling-hugging-same-gender-friend-when-meeting/

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Books

  • al-Majmu' Syarh al-Muhazzab (al-Nawawi)
  • Mughni al-Muhtaj (al-Khatib al-Syirbini)