FatwaPerakEthics, Remembrance & Supplication
Apakah hukum anak-anak yang tidak mengambil tahu hal bapa sendiri dan bersikap derhaka?
What is the ruling on children who neglect their father and are disobedient to him?
Short answer
Disobedience to one's father is among the gravest of major sins, and the Prophet warned against doing anything that hurts one's parents.
A reference, not a fatwa. First sentence of the summary below — read the original fatwa and consult your state authority before acting.
- Authority
- Perak State Mufti Department
- Status
- Opinion (irsyad)
- Series
- Soal Jawab
- Topic
- Ethics, Remembrance & Supplication
No evidence of gazettement in the source — this is not a gazetted fatwa.
Summary
Disobedience to one's father is among the gravest of major sins, and the Prophet warned against doing anything that hurts one's parents. The cited hadith places disobedience to parents alongside associating partners with Allah, lying and false testimony. A father is advised to be patient and to pray that Allah guides his children.
Written in our own words from the original fatwa — check the source before acting on it.
Dosa derhaka kepada bapa termasuk dosa besar yang paling besar.
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How to cite
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Perak State Mufti Department. “Apakah hukum anak-anak yang tidak mengambil tahu hal bapa sendiri dan bersikap derhaka?”, date not stated. https://mufti.perak.gov.my/component/content/article/soal-jawab?catid=2#products-7. Found via Rujuk Fatwa: https://rujukfatwa.com/en/fatwa/ruling-disobedient-children-neglecting-father/