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IRSYAD HUKUM SIRI KE-510 : HUKUM MENYERTAI MAJLIS ILMU ATAU USRAH TANPA KEBENARAN IBU BAPA

What is the ruling on joining an usrah or knowledge gathering when one's parents do not permit it?

Short answer

Joining an usrah or knowledge gathering without parental permission is permissible, subject to conditions.

Federal TerritoriesOpinion (irsyad)

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Authority
Federal Territories Mufti Office
Date
Status
Opinion (irsyad)
Series
Irsyad al-Hukum (Umum)
Topic
Ethics, Remembrance & Supplication

No evidence of gazettement in the source — this is not a gazetted fatwa.

Summary

Joining an usrah or knowledge gathering without parental permission is permissible, subject to conditions. The gathering must be based on sound knowledge and must not contradict Ahl al-Sunnah wa al-Jamaah, Islamic law or the laws of the country, and the child must not deliberately hurt the parents. Adult children are encouraged to use wisdom and are allowed to use tactful means if necessary. For minors under 18, if parents forbid a particular group out of concern for their child's thinking and safety, their instruction should be obeyed.

Written in our own words from the original fatwa — check the source before acting on it.

kami cenderung kepada pendapat bahawa menyertai usrah atau majlis ilmu tanpa kebenaran ibu bapa adalah diharuskan dengan syarat-syarat berikut:

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Federal Territories Mufti Office. “IRSYAD HUKUM SIRI KE-510 : HUKUM MENYERTAI MAJLIS ILMU ATAU USRAH TANPA KEBENARAN IBU BAPA”, 6 May 2020. https://muftiwp.gov.my/ms/artikel/irsyad-hukum/umum/4503-irsyad-al-fatwa-siri-ke-510-hukum-menyertai-majlis-ilmu-atau-usrah-tanpa-kebenaran-ibu-bapa. Found via Rujuk Fatwa: https://rujukfatwa.com/en/fatwa/joining-usrah-without-parents-permission-ruling/

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Evidence cited

Hadith

  • Abu Daud 494
  • Bukhari 1358
  • Muslim 3005