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IRSYAD HUKUM SIRI KE-748 : HUKUM TIDAK MEMBERI KEMAAFAN

Is it sinful to refuse to forgive someone who has spread one's secrets and faults to others?

Short answer

Islam encourages forgiving the wrongs of others, and those who pardon are praised and promised paradise.

Federal TerritoriesOpinion (irsyad)

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Authority
Federal Territories Mufti Office
Date
Status
Opinion (irsyad)
Series
Irsyad al-Hukum (Umum)
Topic
Ethics, Remembrance & Supplication

No evidence of gazettement in the source — this is not a gazetted fatwa.

Summary

Islam encourages forgiving the wrongs of others, and those who pardon are praised and promised paradise. Even so, a person is permitted not to forgive, since he has the right to retaliate or reclaim his rights when wronged, provided the response is proportionate and does not exceed limits. Forgiving remains more virtuous for keeping the heart and soul pure, especially when the wrongdoer has apologised.

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Justeru, Islam menggalakkan agar memaafkan kesalahan orang lain. Tetapi diharuskan bagi seseorang untuk tidak memaafkan kerana manusia itu mempunyai hak untuk membalas atau menuntut kembali sesuatu jika dia dizalimi dan diambil barang-barang kepunyaannya.

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Federal Territories Mufti Office. “IRSYAD HUKUM SIRI KE-748 : HUKUM TIDAK MEMBERI KEMAAFAN”, 19 January 2023. https://muftiwp.gov.my/ms/artikel/irsyad-hukum/umum/5510-irsyad-al-fatwa-siri-ke-748-hukum-tidak-memberi-kemaafan. Found via Rujuk Fatwa: https://rujukfatwa.com/en/fatwa/is-refusing-to-forgive-others-sinful/

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Books

  • Tafsir al-Qurtubi (al-Jami' li Ahkam al-Quran)