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AL KAFI # 884: HUKUM SUAMI BERKATA “MENYESAL BERNIKAH DENGAN ISTERI”

Does a husband who says he regrets marrying his wife, without intending a divorce, pronounce talaq?

Short answer

A husband's statement that he regrets the marriage is not a talaq expression, whether explicit or implied.

Federal TerritoriesOpinion (irsyad)

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Authority
Federal Territories Mufti Office
Date
Status
Opinion (irsyad)
Series
Al-Kafi li al-Fatawi
Topic
Marriage & Family

No evidence of gazettement in the source — this is not a gazetted fatwa.

Summary

A husband's statement that he regrets the marriage is not a talaq expression, whether explicit or implied. It is merely an expression of regret unrelated to the concept of talaq, so no divorce takes effect on the wife. The ruling advises couples to discuss problems well, seek Allah's help, and turn to mediators, knowledgeable persons or family counselling bodies when disputes arise.

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Ia hanyalah sekadar satu kata-kata meluahkan perasaan kekesalan yang tidak ada kaitan dengan konsep talaq yang dibincangkan. Oleh itu, talaq tidak jatuh terhadap isteri tersebut.

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Federal Territories Mufti Office. “AL KAFI # 884: HUKUM SUAMI BERKATA “MENYESAL BERNIKAH DENGAN ISTERI””, 9 November 2018. https://muftiwp.gov.my/ms/artikel/al-kafi-li-al-fatawi/2742-al-kafi-884-hukum-suami-berkata-menyesal-bernikah-dengan-isteri. Found via Rujuk Fatwa: https://rujukfatwa.com/en/fatwa/husband-says-regret-marrying-wife-talaq/

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Evidence cited

Quran verses

  • An-Nisa' 4:34
  • An-Nisa' 4:35

Books

  • al-Fiqh al-Manhaji
  • Tafsir Ibn Kathir