What are the Islamic guidelines for taaruf between unmarried men and women, and may they meet in public places such as restaurants to get to know each other for marriage?

Summary

Choosing a spouse is every individual's right, but the selection and the getting-to-know process must accord with the Quran and the sunnah. The ruling sets out guidelines for taaruf, including meeting with the woman's guardian or mahram, using a trusted intermediary, and having a genuine intention to marry rather than merely seeking a conversation partner. Both parties should cover the aurah, observe etiquette and lower the gaze, avoid being alone together without a mahram or genuine need, avoid soft or alluring speech and body language that may arouse desire, and avoid physical contact.

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