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AL-KAFI #959: CARA MENANGANI PASANGAN YANG CEPAT PANAS BARAN
How should a husband deal with a wife who is quick-tempered?
Short answer
The fatwa cites Yusuf al-Qaradawi, who says the husband should be patient with his wife's behaviour, remember her good qualities alongside her shortcomings, and treat her kindly.
A reference, not a fatwa. First sentence of the summary below — read the original fatwa and consult your state authority before acting.
- Authority
- Federal Territories Mufti Office
- Date
- Status
- Opinion (irsyad)
- Series
- Al-Kafi li al-Fatawi
- Topic
- Marriage & Family
No evidence of gazettement in the source — this is not a gazetted fatwa.
Summary
The fatwa cites Yusuf al-Qaradawi, who says the husband should be patient with his wife's behaviour, remember her good qualities alongside her shortcomings, and treat her kindly. The wife is likewise urged to keep her husband content as far as she can and not let him go to sleep angry with her. Both spouses are encouraged to pray for pleasing partners and offspring.
Written in our own words from the original fatwa — check the source before acting on it.
Seorang suami mestilah bersabar terhadap karenah isterinya, jika dia mendapati ada sesuatu kelakuan daripada isteri yang tidak menyenangkan hati suami.
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How to cite
Cite the original fatwa and its authority. Rujuk Fatwa is only where you found it.
Federal Territories Mufti Office. “AL-KAFI #959: CARA MENANGANI PASANGAN YANG CEPAT PANAS BARAN”, 15 December 2018. https://muftiwp.gov.my/ms/artikel/al-kafi-li-al-fatawi/2876-al-kafi-959-cara-menangani-pasangan-yang-cepat-panas-baran. Found via Rujuk Fatwa: https://rujukfatwa.com/en/fatwa/dealing-with-quick-tempered-spouse/