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IRSYAD HUKUM SIRI KE- 387 : ADAKAH BOLEH SUAMI MELARANG ISTERI UNTUK MENZIARAHI AHLI KELUARGANYA
Can a husband forbid his wife from visiting her family members?
Short answer
A wife should in principle seek her husband's permission to leave the home, including to visit her parents.
A reference, not a fatwa. First sentence of the summary below — read the original fatwa and consult your state authority before acting.
- Authority
- Federal Territories Mufti Office
- Date
- Status
- Opinion (irsyad)
- Series
- Irsyad al-Hukum (Umum)
- Topic
- Marriage & Family
No evidence of gazettement in the source — this is not a gazetted fatwa.
Summary
A wife should in principle seek her husband's permission to leave the home, including to visit her parents. However, this ruling states that a husband who forbids his wife from visiting her family without a reasonable basis in Islamic law commits a prohibited act, as it can lead to severed family ties. The prohibition is permissible if it aims to prevent harm to the wife or to their marriage. The ruling notes that the Shafi'i and Hanbali scholars permit such a ban though it is better not to, while the Hanafi and Maliki scholars forbid husbands from preventing visits.
Written in our own words from the original fatwa — check the source before acting on it.
Oleh itu jelaslah bahawa hukum suami melarang isterinya untuk menziarahi ahli keluarganya tanpa sebab yang munasabah di sisi syarak adalah haram.
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How to cite
Cite the original fatwa and its authority. Rujuk Fatwa is only where you found it.
Federal Territories Mufti Office. “IRSYAD HUKUM SIRI KE- 387 : ADAKAH BOLEH SUAMI MELARANG ISTERI UNTUK MENZIARAHI AHLI KELUARGANYA”, 30 January 2020. https://muftiwp.gov.my/ms/artikel/irsyad-hukum/umum/4079-irsyad-al-fatwa-siri-ke-387-adakah-boleh-suami-melarang-isteri-untuk-menziarahi-ahli-keluarganya. Found via Rujuk Fatwa: https://rujukfatwa.com/en/fatwa/can-husband-forbid-wife-visiting-family/