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IRSYAD HUKUM SIRI KE- 387 : ADAKAH BOLEH SUAMI MELARANG ISTERI UNTUK MENZIARAHI AHLI KELUARGANYA

Can a husband forbid his wife from visiting her family members?

Short answer

A wife should in principle seek her husband's permission to leave the home, including to visit her parents.

Federal TerritoriesOpinion (irsyad)

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Authority
Federal Territories Mufti Office
Date
Status
Opinion (irsyad)
Series
Irsyad al-Hukum (Umum)
Topic
Marriage & Family

No evidence of gazettement in the source — this is not a gazetted fatwa.

Summary

A wife should in principle seek her husband's permission to leave the home, including to visit her parents. However, this ruling states that a husband who forbids his wife from visiting her family without a reasonable basis in Islamic law commits a prohibited act, as it can lead to severed family ties. The prohibition is permissible if it aims to prevent harm to the wife or to their marriage. The ruling notes that the Shafi'i and Hanbali scholars permit such a ban though it is better not to, while the Hanafi and Maliki scholars forbid husbands from preventing visits.

Written in our own words from the original fatwa — check the source before acting on it.

Oleh itu jelaslah bahawa hukum suami melarang isterinya untuk menziarahi ahli keluarganya tanpa sebab yang munasabah di sisi syarak adalah haram.

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Federal Territories Mufti Office. “IRSYAD HUKUM SIRI KE- 387 : ADAKAH BOLEH SUAMI MELARANG ISTERI UNTUK MENZIARAHI AHLI KELUARGANYA”, 30 January 2020. https://muftiwp.gov.my/ms/artikel/irsyad-hukum/umum/4079-irsyad-al-fatwa-siri-ke-387-adakah-boleh-suami-melarang-isteri-untuk-menziarahi-ahli-keluarganya. Found via Rujuk Fatwa: https://rujukfatwa.com/en/fatwa/can-husband-forbid-wife-visiting-family/

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Evidence cited

Quran verses

  • Al-Isra' 17:23
  • Al-Furqan 25:54
  • Muhammad 47:22
  • Muhammad 47:23
  • An-Nisa' 4:19

Hadith

  • Bukhari 4141

Books

  • Asna al-Matalib (Zakariyya al-Ansari)
  • Fath al-Bari (Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani)
  • al-Fiqh al-Islami wa Adillatuh (Wahbah al-Zuhaili)
  • Mughni al-Muhtaj (al-Khatib al-Syirbini)